{"id":305,"date":"2014-02-21T03:11:20","date_gmt":"2014-02-21T03:11:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/purehearts.info\/?p=305"},"modified":"2014-02-21T03:11:20","modified_gmt":"2014-02-21T03:11:20","slug":"so-what-if-theres-a-little-mess-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/purehearts.info\/?p=305","title":{"rendered":"So what if there&#8217;s a little mess&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Children are little people. They are allowed to spill, to make a mess, to break things, to play, to make noise, to play with more than one toy at one time without putting the others back in place&#8230;it&#8217;s all part of growing up. That&#8217;s how they learn, that&#8217;s how they get in touch with their inner feelings. When a favorite toy falls apart, a child struggles to fix it or to find an alibi or to discover ways to replace it. It&#8217;s a mental exercise towards problem solving. Even someone as old as me loves to buy houses in Monopoly and see my opponent pay rent. So what if I scream when they get to go to jail and miss a turn.<\/p>\n<p>Yes we all need some quiet and alone time, but just imagine if all our homes were empty. The silence would be claustrophobic. There wouldn&#8217;t be any random, out of place laughter. There wouldn&#8217;t be anyone who&#8217;d come from behind and give us a hug, all of a sudden, and then hide under the table! And if everything were always in order, we&#8217;d be like robots or soldiers, marching through life with stiff arms, too rigid to feel the warmth of living&#8230; \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Children are little people. They are allowed to spill, to make a mess, to break things, to play, to make noise, to play with more than one toy at one time without putting the others back in place&#8230;it&#8217;s all part of growing up. That&#8217;s how they learn, that&#8217;s how they get in touch with their&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-305","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-little-minds"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/purehearts.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/305","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/purehearts.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/purehearts.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/purehearts.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/purehearts.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=305"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/purehearts.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/305\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":306,"href":"https:\/\/purehearts.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/305\/revisions\/306"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/purehearts.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=305"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/purehearts.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=305"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/purehearts.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=305"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}